--Original published at Alex's Thoughts
Cognitive dissonance appears to be when one rationalizes a form of suffering they are going through in an attempt to come up with an idea why they are going through such an experience. In my personal experience, it would have to be when I worked an extremely boring job in high school for minimum wage.
I used to worker as a stock boy in a grocery store, and the work was mind-numbing to a ridiculous extent. The pay wasn’t good, and I certainly wasn’t enjoying putting time and energy into something that I had absolutely no interest in. However, I took a small measure of enjoyment from organizing the stock in the warehouse into neat and orderly piles, as it was one of the few tasks where I could engage my natural aptitudes. I am a very organized person by nature, and even though organizing grocery stock is still extremely boring and certainly not worth the pay I was getting in retrospect, I convinced myself that I enjoyed that task in an attempt to rationalize that my job was worth something even though I disliked basically every other aspect of it. I would have sought out another job, but the only other business in my hometown within a decent distance that was hiring high school students was another grocery store that still paid minimum wage, and was not as good at scheduling. As such, cognitive dissonance compelled me to take a small amount of pleasure from the least boring part of my job, as I gained very little from any other aspect of it.
I think that cognitive dissonance is not really a thing that should be promoted, as it is merely an attempt to rationalize suffering. Instead, people should be more focused on alleviating their suffering through alternative means. In my case, I should have focused more on attempting to find a different job or an alternative means of earning money. The amount of time and energy I wasted at that job was relatively disproportionate to the payout I was getting. If I could do it over again, I’d look for a different job at other businesses in the area. Instead of rationalizing the boredom and lack of opportunity I had, I should sought an alternative path that would have provided me with more opportunity and happiness.