--Original published at The Core Techs
If you are a current college student like me, you must know how stressful it is to be working full-time. We have long days, short nights, and weekends that definitely do not seem like they last at least 48 hours. We are constantly studying and doing school work, whether it is in the library, in a dorm, or in the cafe. Actually, students like us basically study anytime anywhere. There really is no “break.” Alongside athletics and other club events too, things just seem to pile up a mile high. So no matter who you are, we all know you are not invisible, and as a full-time college student, stress is inevitable.
As for myself, I am constantly getting involved in things. I am a field hockey player on the college team, a member of the Student Occupational Therapy Association and other clubs, and usually highly involved in things around campus. I always have my nose in something because otherwise, I will get bored. Although this is true, I still need to find time to relax, and with everything I want to be a part of, it just seems like there is no time to sit back and chill. With everything I do, I have definitely had to learn to cope with my stress. Here are a few things I do:
- TALK
- I cannot express how important this is. Having someone just to sit down and talk to makes a world of a difference. Talk about your day. Talk about your homework or classes. Talk about what is bothering you. Literally, talk about anything. Talking is so essential – it’s our nature as humans. People always need other people, so communication has always been a huge part of our species. One thing I have learned over the years from struggling with depression is that if you choose to bottle things up instead of talking to other people, you will eventually crack and everything is going to spill. Find someone you trust – I know it can be hard, but the world is not as terrible as you think it might be.
- RUN/DANCE/BE ACTIVE
- As a current college athlete, I have found a passion of mine to be in exercising. I love to run, weight lift, or simply be active. When I run, I put my earbuds in, jam out, and lose the outside world. I don’t have to think about anything. It’s so simple; just breathe. Run off your anger and your problems. If you’re not much of a runner, try weight lifting! I really love this activity, and I try to do it every day. It allows me to really take out my stress or anger by channeling all my power into the machine. Not only will this help you calm down afterward because all your build-up has been released, but it is also really good for your body! If these activities are not quite your style, try something like Zumba or Pound! In both of these activities, I really feel the beat and the rhythm. I know I’m absolutely horrible at dancing, and when it comes to hitting sticks (if you are confused, I am referring to Pound), I am surprisingly uncoordinated. Everyone there is in a big group, and honestly, no one cares how you look. It is so much fun and I cannot help but smile as my friends and I look ridiculous together or even if I look ridiculous on my own. Even still, if these activities seem too extreme, yoga is always a go-to. It is simple, relaxing, and peaceful. You focus on breathing and your poses and that’s it. It is completely unique and completely you. Even if you don’t want to try yoga, stretching, in general, is a great alternative.
- DIY
- Okay Pinterest lovers, this one is for you. I love to be creative; I’m actually pursuing a minor in Studio Art! Drawing and painting are one of my all-time favorite things to do. I love letting my creative expressions out. It’s very calming, and if I put on music, I can jam out while painting too. If you’re not much of a painter, try coloring books for adults! You know what I’m talking about… Those mandala books with the super cool designs?! They are so convenient and great. I actually got my grandma one with some colored pencils, and before she recently passed away, that was her thing. She loved to color for hours on end. She was lonely and living by herself towards the end of her years, and these coloring books really brought her joy and gave her something to do. If you still don’t feel like drawing and such, try some do-it-yourself! On Pinterest, there is a whole other world of things to do. You can make string art, book crafts, stress bottles, and more. Seriously – if you haven’t been on Pinterest yet, even if you’re a dude, check it out RIGHT NOW!!
- ORGANIZE
- I am a stickler for being organized. I have things in my backpack ordered from front to back, my pens and pencils grouped together with rubber bands, my shirts ordered in my closet by style, and even my socks and underwear separated by a cubby-style organizer in my drawer. Okay, TMI, but seriously, organizing lets me feel clean and relaxed. My roommate and I have a very clean room with things put in certain places. Neither of us has OCD, it is just something we enjoy doing. Having a clean and organized environment is really good for your brain too. It allows us to clear out clutter and access things easily. If you like being scatter-brained, hey, that’s fine! Reorganizing or going through my stuff is just one other thing that helps me personally destress.
- MEDITATE
- I love to meditate. When I actually have time, that is… I would really love to do it more than I actually do. Although this is true, meditation is nothing to be afraid of. It is actually quite simple once you get the hang of it. The way I started meditating was through an app. There are plenty of free apps out there to assist you. If you don’t want to download anything, maybe try to find a meditation program at your college or in your community. I know my college has plenty of programs to help kids relax and unwind. There is a lot to learn from meditation, so I highly recommend you try it!
- SMILE
- Alright, this might be a little cheesy, but if you force yourself to smile, things actually get a little brighter. You must be thinking, No way, B. You’re insane. But seriously, try it! Having a bad day? Force yourself to smile. Feeling sad about something? Force yourself to smile. Angry at the world? FORCE YOURSELF TO SMILE! I know the idea seems awkward, but it really does work. I read it somewhere online, and since then, I use it as a last resort. It seems to work for me! I’m not really sure how it works for everyone, but I know for me personally, it is just the fact that I’m forcing myself to smile and that seems incredibly stupid and ridiculous. I look like an idiot and then I laugh about it. It is kind of similar to trying to laugh without smiling – you should try that too.
Not all of these things will give you a perfect life, but if you try and try again, I can guarantee you will feel a little better. Stress hits everyone differently, and there are always new methods to try for coping. Never give up and never stop looking for solutions. I can promise you that eventually, something will come up.
How do you manage your stress, Core Techs?
-B
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