--Original published at MaddiesCollegeBlog
This week I chose to write about the second prompt which talks about the 2 methods of treating addiction.
Addiction is something I am very familiar with (which is unfortunate at my age) but I am going to incorporate my personal experiences to my post to show the severity of addiction and how I feel that one method is definitely better than the other, but neither are good enough for this epidemic.
I am from Hanover, PA, it is relatively a small town with a suburbs side and a “city” side. My high school was very interesting because we lie right between the city and suburbs part of town, so we get a mix of the upper-end people and the city people. Being in a school so diverse, it was really eye-opening to see how things spread so easily. My high school was always known for being a bunch of druggies, it got to the point where it was so bad people knew it as “heroin high” and called it that for years. There would always be police and drug sniffing dogs searching the lockers, people doing drugs in the bathroom, and so on. I knew it was bad, but it never truly effected me until my junior year when one of my closest friend started to become an addict.
His father had stage 4 lung cancer, and was basically put into hospice, but they were giving him Oxycontin so he would be in less pain. My friend discovered these pills, and started popping them but, only every so often. Before a party, before going to football games, and sometimes just for the hell of it. then, as his father progressively got worse, I started to notice that he was popping them more frequently and becoming less like himself, I started to get concerned. By the end of my junior year he was now taking them everyday before school, when he would get home from school, and so on and then I had realized that he was truly getting addicted to this opioid. So, I expressed my concerns, and we anonymously told the head counselor at the high school that something needed to be done because the issue was now bigger than us just telling him to stop. Thankfully, they had sat him down in a meeting with the school board, the 3 principals & all the counselors and basically scared him enough to never touch it again. His father ended up dying that November. Since then, from my knowledge, he hasn’t touched it since.
I feel that choosing a method definitely depends on the severity of the case. Each person has their own battles, some harder than others, and therefore I feel like we can not generalize what approach would be better for everybody. although, I do feel that each approach is beneficial so anyone who faces addiction could go through abstinence or reduction model and most likely get similar results.
Now about a month or two ago, I had very close friend who happens to also be my co-worker, overdose on heroin at the age of 18. She never showed any signs that she was using, she had some other problems going on (Home life, boyfriend, etc) but never seemed to let it get to her. She always came into work smiling and cracking jokes. I wish I could have noticed a change, but she never reached out for help, she held everything in I assume. She was loved by many, and I wish I could have done something.
In her case, I would have recommended going to AA, but also partaking in the reduction model because of how bad her case was. Also, heroin is a very addictive drug so I feel that just attending AA meetings would not have completely gotten her to stop.
I think overall, Most people should partake in AA to completely try to stop using the drug, but I understand that it is tough. So maybe by taking on both treatments would be beneficial to all.