--Original published at Rachel's Blog
Many people experience stress, which can be defined as a response to a situation that threatens one’s sense of well being. Stressors are something that triggers a stress response which can be something little like stressing over a test, or it can be something bigger like medical concerns. Whether the stressor is small or long lasting, both can cause people large amounts of stress which can affect their everyday life. Stress can target many different audiences such as college students, athletes, and parents, and for each specific group, there can be different coping mechanisms.
The first audience that this can relate to is college students. This is because college students are under high levels of stress because there is much more work to be completed, and the professors expect more out of the students. Especially freshman, they find that their first semester is very stressful, so it is important for these students and all students to develop new habits so that they can get used to things since it will be different than high school. According to the University of Michigan, there are pros and cons to stress. A pro is that it can help you avoid danger, and it can keep you motivated. If stress builds up, this can affect different things such as sleeping, concentration, and school work. They suggest a few ways to try to manage or reduce the amount of stress you are having. The first way is to find a balance in your schedule, which means to find time for what must get done, like attending class and finishing homework, but then also find time to relax and give yourself a mental break. This forces you to have a good sense of time management, which is an essential skill to everyday life. A second suggestion is to start a journal. This would be helpful because you could write down everything that is causing you to feel stressed. When these thoughts are written down, if it is school related, you could then prioritize what is needed to be completed first, and then you can cross items off of the list, which will give you satisfaction. A third way to manage stress is to have good sleeping habits. Usually college students will stay up late at night trying to finish homework, but this can cause you to feel worse off because you will be sleep deprived, causing you to feel more stressed. I think that these strategies provided will be successful because finding a balance and having good sleep habits are essential to life even after college. These strategies are adaptive strategies because they are aiming to improve the situation without causing other problems.
The second audience this topic can relate to is athletes. This is because athletes have a lot to focus on all at one time such as homework, practices, games, and training outside of practice to prepare. This can cause them stress because there is so much to do in so little time. The author Christie Morton, of the article, “Stress Management techniques for Sports,” says that there are three components to managing stress. The first is cognitive restructuring, which “helps you think through a situation.” The way to perform this is to write down what is making you feel stressed, write down your thoughts about it, and then write down how you plan to overcome the situation. The message of this is to plan ahead and write down ways to improve yourself for the future. The second part is all about visualization, which means that you see yourself achieving a goal that you set for yourself. An example could be seeing yourself medal at a track meet, or scoring a goal during your soccer game. This motivates you to keep going, and it will make you get through some of the hardest moments while training. A third part is guided relaxation, which could be playing calming music so that you can relax your muscles. By listening to calming music and doing deep breathing exercises, this will help relax your muscles because they will not be as tense as they are when stressed. I also think that these strategies will be helpful because a part of overcoming tough situations is believing in yourself that you can do it. This could go along with self- indulgence because it can be stressful to play a sport, but you can do something pleasant to deal with stress which could be having a pass with someone or shooting a basketball which deals with your sport, but does not cause you to feel more stressed.
The final audience that this can relate to is parents. This is because they are worried about finances, work, and raising a family. One way is to talk about problems or stress with your children. If you notice that they are stressed it would be best to approach them and ask them to talk about what is on their mind. If you are able to have this conversation with your children, then it might help them a little bit because they know that someone is willing to help them. Also, this will lead to good communication which can help when it comes to problem solving. This could be seen as emotion- focused coping because it will help parents to focus on feelings that their children have due to a stressor. A second way is to create a healthy environment. Different areas around you can contribute to stress, so trying to work in a different area could be beneficial. Also, cleaning up messy areas can help because it will make you feel less stressed and it is something that you can control. Finally, it is important to change one habit at a time. If you try to change multiple things all at once, you will be overwhelmed, and it can cause you to feel stressed, which is what you are trying to avoid. Also, changing one thing at a time can lead to success, which can then encourage you to accomplish more. I think that these strategies provided will be successful because it is important to take things one step at a time, and to have good communication skills. This could be considered as adaptive strategy because parents are trying to improve the situation without having other problems arise.
http://campusmindworks.org/students/self_care/managing_stress.asp
https://www.livestrong.com/article/371195-stress-management-techniques-for-sports/
http://www.apa.org/helpcenter/managing-stress.aspx
