--Original published at Emily's Blog
Stress is the process by which we perceive and respond to certain events that we may appraise as threatening or challenging. It is not the events themselves but how we respond to these events. There are about three main types of stressors: catastrophes, significant life changes, and daily hassles. When faced with these stressors our bodies respond. This may be with raised heart rate, feelings of faintness, raised blood pressure and raised temperature. These symptoms and many others put together result in exhaustion. Overall, prolonged stress can be damaging to your body mentally and physically.
In class, we discussed many different types of stress management tips. Some of these included exercises, meditation, religion, self-disclosure, and gaining social support. These types of stress coping are proven to help people overcome stress. But these coping strategies are personal. Types of stress coping may work for some but not others.
What does the media say about coping with stress? Millions of people deal with stress daily and turn to the internet to provide them with the answers. Specifically, what are the pop-culture articles sharing about children’s stress, adult’s stress, and teenager’s stress?
Children may struggle with stress at a very young age. Developmentally, it is very important for children to not have a ton of strain put on their bodies as their brains are beginning to develop. The article, “Reducing Stress in Kids,” talks about making sure they have time to relax, practicing controlled breathing, and using muscle relaxation to aid with sleep. These are all good tips. Children should have time to calm down in their day especially if they are dealing with a significant life-changing event. In class, we practiced controlled breathing and it was able to help many students relax. I believe it could also work the same way for children. I had troubles sleeping as a child and practiced muscle relaxation. I believe this is good advice for children who may be struggling to fall asleep. The only thing I wish the article would have added is that these strategies are highly individualized and may not work every time for your child. Each parent needs to have a bunch of tools to help deal with their child’s possible stress issues.
The second article entitled, “Stress Management: Using Self-Help Techniques for Dealing with Stress,” is about how adults deal with stress. This article is aimed at adults because it specifically mentions some of the stressors in adult’s daily lives. Including, paying the bills, taking care of family responsibilities, and working at a consistent job. This article believes to reduce stress one must identify the sources of stress in your life, manage your time, make time for relaxation, connect with others, and exercise. These tips are all beneficial in aiding stressed out individuals. The article does an especially good job of talking about “fight or flight response.” The article explains it is natures way of defending yourself. The article does fall short in explaining the depth of each type of stress reliever. It merely skims the surface when addressing each coping strategy. Instead of providing why these strategies work, the article mostly just shares a little about each strategy and provides links to show other websites which can assist with each topic.
The third article is about stress management for teenagers. “For Teens: Creating Your Personal Stress-Management Plan,” is an article which gives a ten-point plan on how to live a less than stressful life. The points include identifying the problem, avoiding stress when possible, let things go, exercise, practice relaxation, eat well, sleep well, practice meditation, release emotional tension, and contribute to the world. The article does an especially good job of explaining meditation. It describes the steps of taking a mental vacation in detail. The article also does a good job of mentioning points the other articles have missed such as letting things go. This can be a huge stressor in people’s lives. It is important to note this intrapersonal part of our lives. These are good points, but the article is missing the purpose of stress relief. This article falls short in the same way as the first article about children. There is not a magic formula which prevents stress for people. It is trial and error and seeing what works best for you in each situation. If there was a magic formula, I feel as though psychologists would have figured it out by now. Alas, people are different and there is not simply one solution to this problem.
https://stressfreekids.com/13654/reducing-stress-in-kids/
https://www.helpguide.org/articles/stress/stress-management.htm?pdf=true